Shopping is a chore
When it comes to the time men spend with their partner in a
relationship, they will definitely not enjoy shopping as much as women do. Men will
tolerate it the first few times because he wants to impress her and do
something that she likes to do, but deep down men hate shopping. Don’t expect
him to keep it up.
You have a higher
standard of beauty
Women will definitely hold themselves up to a higher
standard of beauty than men do. When it comes to the categories of; weight,
hair, makeup, style, and overall looks in general, it’s women who beat
themselves up over not measuring up to their standards of beauty. Meanwhile the
men find them beautiful and don’t understand what they are so upset about.
Men also don’t notice the little details that they will
obsess over such as; little wrinkles appearing over time, a bad haircut, gaining
a couple of pounds, these details will usually go unnoticed. Stop obsessing
over them.
Other beautiful
women don’t matter
Where some guys can look or stare at another beautiful woman
who just walked into the room, it usually doesn’t mean too much. Men have been
looking at beautiful women their whole lives, even before they met their
partners. It doesn’t really mean too much when he glances, don’t freak out.
We don’t really
like listening to you that much
As it will get tolerated in the beginning stages of a
relationship, listening to her ten minute rant over how her day went can get
tiring over the course of a relationship. Guys don’t really like listening for
too long.
Along with which, they don’t like all the small details that
women will go into. Men like their conversations to get to the point.
You should ask us
out
Many times men can be preoccupied with matters of work or
other distractions. So if you see a guy you like and you are waiting for him to
make the first move on you, it may not happen. Men aren’t always on hunt mode,
so when you see a guy you like, you need to make the first move or give him a
definite and obvious sign you want him. A direct and assertive approach is
actually very sexy.
Sex doesn’t mean
love
Sex to men will often mean less to them than women. So even
if you have been out on a few dates with a guy, don’t expect sex to strengthen
your relationship with him.
We don’t care what
you eat on the date
Many times women will feel as if they will be judged by what
they eat in front of other people. Men, don’t really care what you eat in front
of them. In fact if you can eat like you would if you weren’t on a diet, it’s
actually a lot sexier.
Don’t be so girly
Being elegant and classy is a huge turn on for a man. But
there are times where putting on jogging pants and acting sportier and less
girly can be an even bigger turn-on.
Particularly if a date calls for it, women should wear the
right shoes and clothes. Along with, act less lady like and not care about the
way they act.
Men don’t
understand listening
As old as time, men aren’t going to understand it when a
woman wants him to just listen. Men will assume that if she starts talking to
him about his problems, she’s going to want his input and answers to whatever
she’s venting about. The way men show love, is in giving help through his input
on the problems she’s experiencing.
We won’t get your
hints when you think we should
Whatever hints she could be dropping, he’s not going to get
them. Where women operate by subtlety and grace, men operated through direct
communication. So because of these 2 different languages, he’s not going to get
the clues she gives him.
Particularly in the hints that she likes him, women may
think he’s getting them but he may not actually.
We need space
In relationships men can get sick of spending too much time
with the woman he loves. Men need a more balanced lifestyle when it comes to
spending time with her and time alone to himself. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t
love her, it just means he needs time alone every now and then.
You can take things
too personally at times
There are many times that a man can do something that means
nothing at all to them that women can take too personally and get bent out of
shape over. Other times, a man not calling her or not answering his phone can hurt
a lot more from her point of view than what he ever meant it to.
These are the 12 things men want women to know. Many times
women will go about a relationship believing that men think and behave just
like women do, this is normal in any relationship. However these are the truths
that men have wanted to express to women in many circumstances.
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